My husband of 17 years is kind but our marriage is loveless | Dear Mariella

Isn't it possible to improve the parts of your relationship that need revamping, says Mariella, while taking the time and energy to pursue interests outside the partnership? The dilemma I have been married for 17 years and we have three beautiful children, aged between 12 and 17.Over the past 10 years our marriage has become more and more unsatisfying. We don't feel emotionally close any more. It seems we are sticking it out for the kids, so neither of us has to leave. However, our loveless, lon...